How To Stop Blaming Others & Start Leading Your Life | Alex Banayan Ep 012

Listen to this episode from The Mike Posner Podcast on Spotify. On this episode, we welcome Alex Banayan, celebrated as the youngest bestselling business author in the U.S. for "The Third Door," which details his quest to learn from luminaries like Bill Gates and Lady Gaga. Featured on Forbes’ 30 Under 30 and named one of Business Insider’s “Most Powerful People Under 30,” Alex brings unparalleled insights into achieving success.In a heart-to-heart conversation, Alex confronts a common illusion—that happiness is our ultimate goal, suggesting that what we're actually seeking is fulfillment. He explains how we often prioritize what brings us happiness incorrectly, offering insight on how to lead a more happy and fulfilling life by reshuffling our focus in life.Highlighting pain as a crucial teacher, Alex encourages us to ask, "What is this pain teaching me?" This mindset shifts our approach to pain from one of avoidance to one of learning and growth.Moreover, Alex debunks myths around success, challenging the "work hard, play hard" mentality and the notion that one must "pay their dues" to succeed. He offers a more thoughtful path to achieving our dreams.This episode is especially for anyone feeling overwhelmed by pain or circumstances that seem out of control. Alex's message is clear: by taking ownership and learning from our challenges, we can turn our pain into power and our obstacles into opportunities for growth. Join us for an inspiring journey towards empowerment and fulfillment with Alex Banayan.